A deal breaker list is easy to come by for me. Tops on that list is smoking. I can smell it a mile away. Hate it with a passion. Kiss me? Hell no. It shows me that you have no respect for your body or for me. I haven't licked an ashtray in a long time and don't plan to anytime soon. Have enjoyed a smokeless partners for a long time. Even if you smoke recreationally when you drink... still hit the road.
Mad all the time... Just a generally mad disposition all the time will extend you into the deal breaker realm.
Trust issues.... just saying.
Stanky sex.... pretty self-explanatory
No sense of humor... boring
Shanita.....
Okay, smoking, drinking and drugs are definitely on the list. But for me its always about the fatal flaw, that thing which turns me off...sometimes forever. I was enamored with a man who was working on the Clinton campaign...Bill's not Hillary's. After Clinton won, the staff convened in Arkansas, about four hours from where I lived. My friend was from New York, so proximity was always an issue. I drove to Little Rock, picked him up and took him back to my home in Tulsa for a lovely little staycation.
The next time we saw each other, I was in New York. I was in the Bronx and we were going to hang out in Manhattan. He refused to pick me up, while, I still hung out with him, the lack of reciprocity killed my romantic interest in him. Lack of reciprocity is a fatal flaw.
David....
Lack of reciprocity to me is equal with wasting my time. Shit or get off the pot. Make a decision. Indecisiveness ranks up there too.