Is this a boys to men song???
Shanita.....
Women are often attracted to that jock, that stud, that bad boy...the rich , famous or powerful man There sometimes is a level of desperation that may cause women to lie and these men will think they are not only gods gift but exceptionally entitled. Having a relationship with integrity and fidelity may be difficult. That person who grows up gorgeous may fail to develop core traits because everything is handed to them, thrown at them and life is just too easy.
Me, I like that quiet guy, the nerd, the late bloomer because they have to learn to please women.... and when you give them a try... they just rock your world. More importantly they like...no LOVE women. They often spent their formative years with girls and later women as friends. And they have learned to relate to the female species as people and not objects to be used.
It was that way in my 20s and now 30 years later it still holds true. They may now have that swagger but hooo boy thank goodness for those early years......
David....
I'm proud to be that late bloomer. Back in my 20's my afro wasn't long enough, I wasn't cool enough, my dance steps were not on point all the time and I didn't have that smooth rap with all the ladies. But, I did hold my own. Now that I'm older, I do realize that some of those things that were so important in my 20's don't mean a hill of beans in my 50's. You get to the point that here I am and this is what you get. Take it or leave it.
How many women had the chance to date Bill Gates back in the day and now lament their hasty decision making. Turning him down and not even giving him a chance.... Karma at it's finest.
Always told my daughter to go for the eventually successful nerd in college. Real payback....
So, wasn't I the quiet nerdy guy back in college??? I think so.... (-:
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