Shanita....
Sometimes the reason a relationship is o'ding on boredom is that someone in the relationship is spreading themselves a little thin. Their interest and energy is being diverted elsewhere. They're tired or maybe they are conserving energy and resources for extracurricular activities. The biggest clue that this might be happening is when the other party makes suggestions and they are basically ignored...especially if these suggestions are for things more up the other persons alley. This is the point you gotta start paying attention to other changes in behavior. Or it could just be a temporary lag...one can always hope.
David.....
Boredom... what a concept? We all have the ability to keep a relationship fresh but sometimes choose not to. Getting settled in a groove that actually feels pretty good can be a factor here. Not introducing freshness or newness into a partnership will harbor boredom. Changing things up with persons, place or things. I call the noun fight of the boredom principle. Get out of that rut. Go to new and different places. Double date with a couple you haven't seen in a while. Get in your pajamas, pop some popcorn and have a movie night at home. There are endless thing you can do. But, the deal breaker is, the other person has to be receptive to all the new changes.
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